Speed Dating Conversation Topics

26.4. 2013 - Speed Dating Tip

  • Which is the last book you read, movie you saw? (ice-breaker)
  • What are you looking for in a relationship? (Are you looking for the same)
  • What do you do for fun? (Will you be able to share common activities)
  • Would you like to spend a month trekking the Himalaya with backpacks and tent? (Do you match on view on holiday spending).
  • If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be and why? (this conversation can then go into many different directions)
  • What are the personality traits do you hate most about people? (insight into personality)
  • What do your friends like most about you?
  • What are you most proud of? What are your biggest accomplishments? (what are the values of the persons, career, money, family, adventure)
  • Do you believe in love at first sight? (romantic or realist)
  • What is your favorite book/movie? (reveals more about personality)
  • Your house is burning, you can take only 3 things what would that be? (reveals the sentiment of person)
  • If you could choose any job in the world, without having to care for money what would that be? (preferences)
  • Where do you think you will be in 5 years? (Does the person lives day to day, does not care about future or to contrary is well prepared and has positive and realistic outlook)
  • What have you done last weekend, the weekend before?
  • Do you think relationships break up because of bad sex, or the sex becomes bad because the relationship is bad? (do you share the same opinions)
  • How important is sex to you? (fun question, but also reveals about some values)
  • What is your idea of a perfect holiday? (do you match)
  • You have 3 months to live, what will you do first?
  • What is a TV show that you would never miss?
  • Who was your childhood hero? (personality, sentiment)
  • If you could travel back through time, what single mistake would you correct in life? (What are regrets of a person)
  • What is your most treasured possession? (sentiment)
  • What would be the one adjective that is the most fitting for your personality?
  • What would be the adjective your close friends would choose to describe your personality?
  • Do you believe the glass is half empty or half full?
  • What is your favorite sporting activity, celebrity, movie, book, song?